The tradition of the bride and groom seeing each other for the first time at the altar has been a classic wedding moment for generations. But in recent years, more couples are embracing the 'First Look'—a private moment before the ceremony where they see each other and soak in the emotions without a crowd watching. Like any wedding tradition (or trend), there are pros and cons to consider.

The Perks of a First Look

One of the biggest benefits? Privacy. A First Look allows couples to have a deeply personal moment together before the ceremony. Without an audience, emotions can flow more freely, and nerves often melt away. If you're feeling anxious about the big walk down the aisle, this quiet moment can bring reassurance and comfort.

Another plus? It frees up your wedding day timeline. Instead of squeezing all your couple portraits into cocktail hour, a First Look gives you time beforehand to capture those special photos. This can lead to more relaxed, natural images and allows you to spend more of your reception actually celebrating with your guests.

The Flip Side

Of course, there are reasons why some couples still prefer the traditional aisle reveal. There’s something undeniably magical about the groom seeing his bride for the first time as she walks toward him—an emotional build-up that can be incredibly special. Opting out of a First Look keeps that moment sacred and filled with anticipation.

It’s also worth noting that a First Look means getting ready earlier in the day. If you're not a morning person or simply want a slower start, adding an earlier photo session to the timeline might feel like a stretch.

Alternatives to the First Look

Not totally sold on a First Look but still want a special pre-ceremony moment? Here are a few creative alternatives:

First Touch – Stand on either side of a door, or around the corner of a building, and hold hands without seeing each other. It’s an intimate way to connect, exchange a few words, or even read letters to one another before the ceremony.

First Look with Parents – If you’re skipping a First Look with your partner, consider doing one with your parents. Seeing their reaction to you in your wedding attire can create some incredibly heartfelt moments (and beautiful photos!).

Funny First Look Prank – Looking to add some humor to your big day? Instead of seeing their bride or groom, one partner turns around to find a groomsman, bridesmaid, or even a friend dressed in a wedding gown or suit! This lighthearted prank can ease pre-wedding jitters and create some hilarious photos to look back on.

At the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong choice—it’s all about what feels most special to you. Whether you choose a First Look, a First Touch, or stick with tradition, the most important thing is creating a wedding experience that feels authentic and meaningful to you and your partner.